Queerology

Those pictures of you are super cute! :D

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 13:52:37 -0400

Thanks!

Photo

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:58:12 -0400

Honesty Hour. No questions are deleted. Nothing is off limits. Ask me anything.

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:47:01 -0400

fancymen: ƒancy can I look like that now?

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:37:14 -0400

fancymen:

ƒancy

can I look like that now?

soonvietunion: If you’re not excited as fuck for this movie...

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:34:13 -0400

soonvietunion:

If you’re not excited as fuck for this movie then you’re fucking lying.

Dude, enough with the fucking self-doubt. In the second picture of yourself that you posted, you look 100% male. male enough to make my cock hard. you pass. you don't need a makeover&you don't need to live in constant hatred of yourself. you are a fucking handsome young man. wear t-shirts, jeans, old converse, & keep your hair short & you'll see that T/transitioning are obviously going to help BUT you can manage while you get there. just do some pushups for arm vascularity & you're set.

Wed, 19 Jun 2013 00:43:36 -0400

When I had my hair that short was the last time. When I did it, my mom physically choked me and called me an auschvitz victim (which is probably the worst thing ive ever heard her say) and a convict. I dont pass. Ever. I always get called miss and mam. I dont even look my age . I constantly get asked (as a boy and a girl) how old I am and what im doing in college. My mom wont allow me to buy guys clothes because she says the dont fit me and make me look like Im wearing my older brothers clothes. Ive been out for 3 years now, and each year it gets more painful. Sometimes I wish I could go back to before I discovered what being trans was. Maybe I would be happier. Maybe Id just be a bisexual girl who was blissfully ignorant.

someone needs to give me a guy makeover. If I cant start T, I really need to start to be serious...

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 23:52:08 -0400

someone needs to give me a guy makeover. If I cant start T, I really need to start to be serious about the other aspects. I need to pass. I want to start fresh next year. Show people the real me. Not the girl me, or the half me thats afraid to embrace himself. But the real me. The guy thats femme but passes and who everybody loves and respects. Who is nerdy, but social. Who needs to be loved, and who loves.

jasmine-blu: I want this so bad

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 23:41:14 -0400

jasmine-blu:

I want this so bad

lord-smaug-the-impenetrable: I was born in the wrong time period. I should have been born in the...

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 23:38:00 -0400

lord-smaug-the-impenetrable:

I was born in the wrong time period. I should have been born in the far future when everyone has the rights they fucking deserve

Love of mine Someday you will dieBut I’ll be close behindI’ll...

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 23:36:54 -0400

Love of mine
Someday you will die
But I’ll be close behind
I’ll follow you into the dark

i used to sing this all the time last summer when my dad was dying. I thought it would comfort me.

I miss him.

reblog if you want anons but in reality no one is going to send you anything and will just reblog this

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 23:34:44 -0400

A+ Televison: The FostersThe official synopsis of this series...

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 23:01:55 -0400

A+ Televison: The Fosters
The official synopsis of this series is, “a multi-ethnic family mix of foster, adopted, and biological kids are being raised by two moms.” Choice of word is important and it most certainly gives an impression. The fact that “two moms” was used instead of “lesbians” or “gay couple” is so goddamn important and tells you so much about the focus of this series. Their sexual orientations are detached from the premise of the show because it’s being said that hey, this is a norm. Two moms can be a norm just as much as two dads or a mother and father can be.

Most often you see the children of gay and lesbian couples being bullied, the parents coming to the rescue and having to explain to them that they will face these prejudices. Yet you have the opposite of that here. These children know who their parents are, they understand that there’ll be prejudice, and they don’t need to accept anything because there isn’t anything to accept; these are their mothers and that’s just as plain as saying the sky is blue.

And god, is that ever so refreshing to see.

fritogay: wow when did phil become hispanic Ricky Ullman is...

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 23:01:14 -0400

fritogay:

wow when did phil become hispanic

Ricky Ullman is Israeli, and one of the few actors from there to have success in american television (besides of course people like Natalie Portman and Bar Rafaeli).

NEVER HAVE I EVER Let’s play “Never Have I Ever”. Cross out all of the things that you have done....

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 22:42:31 -0400

NEVER HAVE I EVER

Let’s play “Never Have I Ever”. Cross out all of the things that you have done. You might just see that there are people just like you out there.

Sexual

~~Never have I ever kissed a girl.~~

~~Never have I ever kissed a boy.~~

~~Never have I ever received/given a blowjob, hand job, eating out.~~

~~Never have I ever had sex.~~

~~Never have I ever fallen in love.~~

Never have I ever cheated on someone.

~~Never have I ever been cheated on.~~

Life

~~Never have I ever gotten into a fight.~~

~~Never have I ever done something illegal.~~

Never have I ever gotten wasted.

~~Never have I ever used an illegal drug.~~

~~Never have I ever snuck out.~~

~~Never have I ever stolen something.~~

~~Never have I ever vandalised something~~

~~Never have I ever lost a family member due to death.~~

Never have I ever been in a life or death situation.

Never have I ever been arrested.

Never have I ever been fired from a job.

Emotions

~~Never have I ever been kept up at night due to guilt.~~

~~Never have I ever laughed so hard I cried.~~

Never have I ever been abused physically

~~Never have I ever cried myself to sleep.~~

~~Never have I ever wished that I was someone else.~~

~~Never have I ever wanted to kill myself~~

Never have I ever tried to kill myself

~~Never have I ever felt like an outcast.~~

~~Never have I ever wanted to do something just so I would fit in.~~

Friendships

~~Never have I ever ruined my friendship with someone.~~

~~Never have I ever had a friend leave me for other people.~~

~~Never have I ever been kicked out of a friend group.~~

~~Never have I ever been friendless.~~

School

~~Never have I ever failed a test.~~

~~Never have I ever cut class.~~

~~Never have I ever had to eat alone.~~

Never have I ever failed a course

~~Never have I ever been suspended.~~

Never have I ever received detention.

Never have I ever dropped out of school.

1, 5 and 31

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:59:41 -0400

if you look back a few posts I have just posted 3 pics

ben and jerrys ice cream

Parent Trap, Milk, Dark Knight, Fight Club…

Whenever I confide in anyone from my family, even people I think are accepting, it just blows up in...

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:44:29 -0400

Whenever I confide in anyone from my family, even people I think are accepting, it just blows up in my face. Why should I have to be this miserable? I just want to transition. Thats all Ive wanted for the past three years. I hate it.

"A student blows up at a teacher, drops the F-bomb. The usual approach at Lincoln – and, safe to say,..."

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:41:26 -0400

“

A student blows up at a teacher, drops the F-bomb. The usual approach at Lincoln – and, safe to say, at most high schools in this country – is automatic suspension. Instead, Sporleder sits the kid down and says quietly: “Wow. Are you OK? This doesn’t sound like you. What’s going on?”

He gets even more specific: “You really looked stressed. On a scale of 1-10, where are you with your anger?” The kid was ready. Ready, man! For an anger blast to his face….”How could you do that?” “What’s wrong with you?”…and for the big boot out of school. But he was NOT ready for kindness.

The armor-plated defenses melt like ice under a blowtorch and the words pour out: “My dad’s an alcoholic. He’s promised me things my whole life and never keeps those promises.” The waterfall of words that go deep into his home life, which is no piece of breeze, end with this sentence: “I shouldn’t have blown up at the teacher.” Whoa.

”

- Lincoln High School in Walla Walla, WA, tries new approach to school discipline — suspensions drop 85% (via mchotdog)

what a radical idea yo

(via matthewdgold)

Bam. Kids “misbehave” for actual, real, valid reasons. And have feelings.

(via amydentata)

For fuck’s sake, it takes the people in charge so long to figure shit like this out! Good for Lincoln High!

(via psychetimelapse)

This needs to be the policy EVERYWHERE…

(via 3dela)

one-dayiwilljump: 1. Picture of you2. What color...

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:38:08 -0400

one-dayiwilljump:

1. Picture of you
2. What color underwear/boxers wearing now?
3. What are you listening to right now?
4. Whats your favorite number?
5. What was the last thing you ate?
6. If you were a crayon what color would you be?
7. How is the weather right now?
8. Who was the last person you talked 2 on the phone?
9. The first thing you notice about the opposite sex?
10. Do you have a significant other?
11. Favorite TV show?
12. Siblings?
13. Height?
14. Hair color?
15. Eye Color?
16. Do you wear contacts?
17. Favorite Holiday?
18. Month?
19. Have you ever cried for no reason?
20. What was the last movie you watched?
21. Favorite Day of the Year?
22. Are you too shy to ask someone out?
23. Can you do a headstand (not using the wall)?
24. Hugs or Kisses?
25. Chocolate or Vanilla?
26. Do you want your friends to respond to this?
27. Who is most likely to respond to a text from you?
28. Who is least likely to respond to a text from you?
29. What books are you reading?
30. Piercings?
31. Favorite movies?
32. Favorite football Team?
33. What are you doing right now?
34. Butter, Plain or Salted popcorn?
37. Dogs or cats?
38. Favorite flower?
39. Been caught doing something you weren’t supposed to do?
40. Do you have a best friend of the opposite sex?
41. Have you ever loved someone?
42. Who would you like to see right now?
43. Are you still friends with people from kindergarten?
44. Have you ever fired a gun?
45. Do you like to travel by plane?
46. Right-handed or Left-handed?
47. How many pillows do you sleep with?
48. Are you missing someone?
49. Do you have a tattoo?
50. Anybody on Tumblr that you’d go on a date with?

"To all those who don’t think the rape joke was a problem, or rape jokes are a problem. I get it,..."

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:31:19 -0400

“

To all those who don’t think the rape joke was a problem, or rape jokes are a problem.

I get it, you’re a decent guy. I can even believe it. You’ve never raped anybody. You would NEVER rape anybody. You’re upset that all these feminists are trying to accuse you of doing something or connect you to doing something that, as far as you’re concerned, you’ve never done and would never condone.

And they’ve told you about triggers, and PTSD, and how one in six women is a survivor, and you get it. You do. But you can’t let every time someone gets all upset get in the way of you having a good time, right?

So fine. If all those arguments aren’t going anything for you, let me tell you this. And I tell you this because I genuinely believe you mean it when you say you don’t want to hurt anybody, and you don’t see the harm, and that it’s important to you to do your best to be a decent and good person. And I genuinely believe you when you say you would never associate with a rapist and you think rape really is a very bad thing.

Because this is why I refuse to take rape jokes sitting down-

6% of college age men, slightly over 1 in 20, will admit to raping someone in anonymous surveys, as long as the word “rape” isn’t used in the description of the act.

6% of Penny Arcade’s target demographic will admit to actually being rapists when asked.

A lot of people accuse feminists of thinking that all men are rapists. That’s not true. But do you know who think all men are rapists?

Rapists do.

They really do. In psychological study, the profiling, the studies, it comes out again and again.

Virtually all rapists genuinely believe that all men rape, and other men just keep it hushed up better. And more, these people who really are rapists are constantly reaffirmed in their belief about the rest of mankind being rapists like them by things like rape jokes, that dismiss and normalize the idea of rape.

If one in twenty guys is a real and true rapist, and you have any amount of social activity with other guys like yourself, really cool guy, then it is almost a statistical certainty that one time hanging out with friends and their friends, playing Halo with a bunch of guys online, in a WoW guild, or elsewhere, you were talking to a rapist. Not your fault. You can’t tell a rapist apart any better than anyone else can. It’s not like they announce themselves.

But, here’s the thing. It’s very likely that in some of these interactions with these guys, at some point or another someone told a rape joke. You, decent guy that you are, understood that they didn’t mean it, and it was just a joke. And so you laughed.

And, decent guy who would never condone rape, who would step in and stop rape if he saw it, who understands that rape is awful and wrong and bad, when you laughed?

That rapist who was in the group with you, that rapist thought that you were on his side. That rapist knew that you were a rapist like him. And he felt validated, and he felt he was among his comrades.

You. The rapist’s comrade.

And if that doesn’t make you feel sick to your stomach, if that doesn’t make you want to throw up, if that doesn’t disturb you or bother you or make you feel like maybe you should at least consider not participating in that kind of humor anymore…

Well, maybe you aren’t as opposed to rapists as you claim.

”

- Time-Machine (via a comment at shakesville.com)

Newton's Third Law of Tumblr:

Tue, 18 Jun 2013 21:30:32 -0400

lord-kitschener:

For every action, there is an faux-outraged and melodramatic overreaction